A Woman Fumbles with Female Sexuality

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The authoress of the excerpted post wants you to believe that women would find this guy attractive because he seems like a stable Dad type.

This chick tries to figure out a certain aspect of female sexuality, the attracted-to-irresponsible-cads thing. I quote from her post (editing for brevity) and add a some comments. An interesting aspect of it is that she seems to be honestly trying to figure herself out, but she fails disastrously. It’s amazing how opaque evolution has made women to themselves.

Or maybe she’s just lying. As always on these topics, it’s hard to tell; the distinction between female deception of men, and female self-deception, is fuzzy.

Fuckers Vs. Raisers

One day in a stereotypical medieval town, a bard comes through.

This is a very sexy bard, violet-eyed, good with a lute, and experienced in the ways of women. During his short stay he sleeps with four of the village wenches, and then bounces off to a new village, to seduce more wenches. Years later, a new child with violet eyes is running around. Life goes on.

There are two sexual strategies for men – Fucking and Raising. Fuckers, like our friend the Bard, do the ol’ fuck-and-run. Move frequently, shoot seed everywhere, and hope that this results in violet-eyed toddlers getting raised by other men. Raisers, by contrast, shoot seed into comparatively few women and end up raising the children they produce.

My question then is why are women attracted to Fuckers? Is there any female advantage to this?

Your scenario itself answers this: If you have a caddish violet-eyed son by this man, that son will run around all over the world spraying his, and therefore your, genes around. It’s not a mystery.

Having a child by a Fucker is dangerous – if she doesn’t have a Raiser lined up, then she’s on her own, and historically this is Very Bad News. If she does have a Raiser and he finds out the child isn’t his, again – Very Bad News.

Sure, it has potential downsides, but it also has potential upsides.

So when the Bard fingers his lute, why do all the women around him sigh?

I think their sighs don’t have anything to do with the fact he’s a Fucker – I think it’s because his traits, if they were present in a Raiser, would be ideal. He’s presenting confidence, skill, and high social standing. If a Raiser like that moved into town, all of the women would be trying to wife themselves at him like crazy. The Bard also is a potential Raiser in the women’s eyes, and he probably has to emphasize that idea in order to get her to sleep with him.

Sorry, no. Common experience refutes this idea. Here’s a question for you ladies: What would be your reaction to each of the following statements by the bard? The context is that you’ve been talking to him one-on-one after his performance at the tavern, for about half an hour, and so far you think he’s sooooooo dreamy! Statement #1: “I’m basically looking for a wife. I’m a solid guy, and I want a family.” Statement #2: You ask him if he has a girlfriend, and he gives a knowing smirk and says, “I’m not really the boyfriend type.” The question for you ladies – no lying! – is, Which statement would get your pussy wet? WAIT, STOP! I didn’t ask, Which statement do you think SHOULD get you wet, but Which statement would actually, in reality, get you wet? Never mind; don’t bother answering; every man who studies women objectively already knows the answer.
I have more to say about this at the end of this post.

This is maybe where the trope of “guy tells girl he loves her in order to sleep with her” comes from. [That is in fact the exact opposite of what works in seducing a woman.] Women don’t want to fuck Fuckers [This statement is an outrageous falsehood], but they will fuck Fuckers disguised as Raisers.

Okay I am done writing now but I don’t know how to do a closing paragraph. I don’t really want to learn.


LOL, I like her last two sentences.

Anyway, on Fuckers vs. Raisers, where she says that what a woman really wants is a raiser, and that fuckers only get sex by presenting themselves as raisers: This is blatantly false. I was in five or six bands in high school and college. Yes, this is great for your sex life. But while it’s good for getting laid in any situation, where it works like a nuclear dynamite LSD supernova is when you’re never going to be in that town again, and the girl knows it. It’s a whole ’nother fucking dimension when you’re playing a one-night-only gig. You have to beat the pussy off with a bat in those circumstances.

No girl in those situations was ever under any delusions that I was going to stick around later than the next morning at latest. But they threw themselves at me.

If you haven’t taken the red pill yet, grok that women are sexual creatures. Whenever they act like they’re “offended” that “women are sexualized,” etc., They. Are. Lying. Their. Asses. Off. They are lying. They’re lyyyyyyyyyyyyyyying.

Women in reality are much closer to women in porn than is commonly admitted by women, or understood by men.

As is so frequently the case, this post is a fantastic lesson in female delusionality about themselves. “I don’t want a fucker,” she tells herself. “I want a raiser!” Sure, if she’s had a couple of kids by a thug who jetted and now needs a sucker to help support them. But that’s not what she wants sexually. There’s a reason she had a couple of kids by the fly-by-night thug, and NO it wasn’t that she was deceived into thinking he was a raiser. If that were true she would have had the kids by an actual raiser. Funny how most of the time in those situations, the father is a fucker. So she was deceived, was she? Fuckers are better at presenting themselves as raisers than actual raisers are? LOL, no.

5 thoughts on “A Woman Fumbles with Female Sexuality”

  1. Here’s my best guess at how they work.
    Women are only sexually (the most basic kind of attraction) attracted to the top 20% or so of males (alternatively only attracted to men significantly above their own self-perceived level of attractiveness). Hence the infamous OK Cupid data.
    This physical/sexual attraction tends to be towards men who are physically attractive (tall, muscular, handsome) and/or show signs of a psychologically-dominant personality (I suspect traits such as “confident”, “charming”, “badboy” etc. are proxies for psychologically-dominant personality.
    Why only the top men? Women have lower sex drives than men. It seems to follow that their sex-drives are, thus, more discriminating. Think of the opposite extreme. A man with a really high sex drive is sexually attracted to almost any woman who isn’t disgusting-he’ll do almost any or all of them.
    Just my guess.

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  2. Agree with most of what you said, but this: “Women have lower sex drives than men.” My Goodness, no! Women are almost unbelievably horny creatures. When I was younger and still gaining experience, this startled me a couple of times when things got to the bedroom stage with a girl. Girls who had presented as demure suddenly were wildcats. They are very good at hiding it, and they are hypergamous, so (as you noted) they’re more discriminating than men.

    Think of it a la evo psych: They have high costs and risks of pregnancy, so they need high horniness to overcome that and make them spread their legs. But because they’re aware of the costs and risks, they don’t spread their legs for just any man.

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  3. I’ve read that androgens are largely responsible for sex drive and men have more.
    Young men want to (and will) have sex multiple times every day or will do it themselves if they can’t. Gay men are reported to have incredibly high amounts of sex – some say with is one reason they go that way. It is also said that the top alpha men still can’t have sex as frequently or with the degree of variety/partners that gay men can. It’s hard to believe men are hornier than this.
    I married the first girl I ever dated (high school) young so I don’t have experiences (or data for that matter) to back all this up – these are just thoughts/opinions – was curious what you thought.

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  4. Sure, homosexual men are notoriously indiscriminate. Women are, as you noted, more discriminating than men in who they have sex with. But they are horny beasts. They crave getting their pussies reamed out, but they’re also kinda scared of it and they’re aware of the costs and risks of pregnancy.

    One thing I’ve noted in my own experience, and the Game community backs this up: Watch how women behave when they’re away from their normal social world, and they don’t have to worry about the “slut” thing marring their reputations. They’re much less restrained. I saw this on the campus of a prep school that was near where I grew up. It had a six-week summer session every year, and the hookups there would start unbelievably fast. Sometimes on the first DAY.

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