Miscellany 23: In Which We Give Etiquette Advice Regarding Miscellany to Young Ladies of Respectable Families

(1) From Overheard in New York:

Rainbow Coalition, Part 1:
https://overheardinnewyork.com/archives/17836.html

Middle Eastern cab driver: “I used to have a video store in Washington Heights. But the black bastard put me out of business! Can you believe it? After ten years the black bastard put me out of business! Do you now the black bastard on Dyckman? C’mon! Everybody knows the back bastard! Black bastard! Black bastard video!”

Rainbow Coalition, Part 2:
https://overheardinnewyork.com/archives/1643.html

Black woman: “This here is Chelsea. It’s where all the rich homosexuals live.”

(2) A practical definition of a free society: One in which you don’t have to watch what you say.

(3) Stupid meme I saw which illustrates how liberalism ruins everything. This starts well. It’s blaringly obvious where some feminist/male feminist fuckwit decided to add something and screwed it up.

KISS HER
until she sighs
SPANK HER
until it stings
FINGER HER
until she’s soaked
LICK HER
until she shudders
FUCK HER
until she screams.
And always
respect her.

There’s an obvious point in that in which suddenly the tone changes radically, all the heat and intensity are destroyed, and the air is let out of the tires. What the fuck? Who would add something like that to a sex meme?! Especially one that says “Spank her until it stings.” Is there anything leftists won’t ruin?

(4) Well, whaddaya know, Neurotoxin’s got a theory. In July 2020 I noted that based on a porn website’s survey of 50,000 respondents from over 150 countries the ideal woman has “straight, dark, long hair.”

This goes against the old cliche that men prefer blondes and indeed, I haven’t known many men who actually prefer blondes. Yer humble correspondent himself likes ’em dark-haired. Why? Because that is the sexually and aesthetically correct preference, of course.

But seriously, why? Here’s my theory: When people get old their hair gets white, and what color is the opposite of white? Right, black. So, dark hair signals youth, and female fertility is highly positively correlated with youth. Men who preferred dark-haired women left more descendants in successive generations, on average, than those who didn’t.

You reply, “But dude, there’s such a thing as a young blonde.” Duh. But when a blonde starts to age it’s less obvious in her hair color than it is for a raven-tressed lass. So blonde-preferring men keep happily fucking them, even though their fertility has fallen off. In contrast, black-haired chicks show it when they start to age; they’re no longer black-haired. So black-hair-preferring men are drawn to 100% reasonably young, fertile women. In contrast, blonde-preferring men are sometimes drawn to young women, sometimes to older women. The differential effect needn’t be large to have mammoth effects over many generations.

This explains the prevalence of dark hair in the human species, as the result of sexual selection. When I was in school the story we got was some bullshit story from biologists that the geographic distribution of skin and hair color has something to do with sunlight and vitamin D at various latitudes. Maybe for skin color, I don’t know, but for hair color, BULLSHIT! There is no particular relationship between latitude and prevalent hair color! (Have you ever noticed that our professional “intellectuals” don’t even try that hard? I mean, they hardly even bother to put up a front of plausibility.) Europe is simply an anomaly, that’s all. The only “pattern” there is that Europe’s weird.

Thus I have explained the scientifically observed fact that, other things being equal, dark-haired chicks are hotter.

You’re welcome.

(5) LOL. Jim, arguing with a commenter at https://blog.jim.com/science/natural-selection-is-reactionary/#comments

What else do women think about? …It is dick, dick, dick, dick, dick all the time. Any time a woman opens her mouth, nothing that she says makes any sense except in relation to alpha male dick going into it. Everything a woman does is dick centric.

(6) Illinois: Sponsor of “no cash bail” plan is outraged that man who threatened him with gun only had to post $1,500 bail.

Senator who sponsored cash bail ban is outraged: Driver who threatened him with gun only had to post $1,500 to get out of jail

“By him being released on bail, he’s free to do this again,” [Illinois State Senator] Elgie Sims of Chicago told the State-Journal Register.

Yet just last month Sims tweeted, “money bond doesn’t guarantee public safety or someone’s appearance in court, it supports a system where freedom is based on the size of someone’s bank account.”

(7) The left doesn’t like to back down – I mean, no one likes to back down, but the left REALLY hates to. It can make them stupidly cling to positions that hurt them. Consider e.g. the entertainment industry and its insistence on hating its customers. Or the tampon company that said that some men need tampons, and when female customers objected to this mind-raping insanity, called them “self-hating misogynists” or whatever on Twitter.

Maybe we can use this to damage the left: Goad them into staking out insane positions in public, positions which they’ll resist backing down from once they’ve adopted them. Given how terrified they are of being out-flanked to the left in the holiness spiral, black-knight nudging of them shouldn’t be too hard. It might also work on politicians as well as left-converged businesses.

(8) IMPORTANT!

“If you can’t get yourself into a position to make decisions directly (rather than trying to persuade those who do) your movement is inert.”

21 thoughts on “Miscellany 23: In Which We Give Etiquette Advice Regarding Miscellany to Young Ladies of Respectable Families”

  1. This can also explain the cravings of men for large breasts. While the girl is young and fertile, her large breasts look just wonderful. On the other hand, flat ones stay at an acceptable level longer.

    I have a question. The best strategy for unattractive men is play the role of a psychopath?

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  2. “I have a question. The best strategy for unattractive men is play the role of a psychopath?”

    Sorry for the delayed response; I was sick.

    The best strategy for any psychologically normal man is to push his behavior more toward the “dark triad” of traits – narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy – which women love. You don’t want to behave like an actual psychopath, just move or seem to move somewhat in that direction. (You also have to show her flashes of “niceness” but infrequently and unpredictably. This gives her rationalization hamster something to work with.)

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  3. Hmm, interacting with women is a bit like dog training. If you reward the dog for each completed task and for each completed command, he will be less active in following your commands than in the case when you reward the dog for service in a random way.

    Okay, what about polygamy? This is one of the most slandered topics in the field of sex and family relations, therefore it is rather difficult to fish out the truth.
    + Obviously, men with women look more attractive than men without women at all. Moreover, women do not see anything wrong with lying under a married man with children. A man becomes a deficit for each of the girls, while girls become interchangeable – which is good.
    – Simple logic dictates that a woman wants to monopolize a man’s resources for her children. Other women and children are competitors.

    If the pluses exceed the minuses, it looks like the best relationship scheme in general: the husband gets several wives, the wives get a strong husband, and the children get a good role model instead of modern cook upbringing. And a bunch of siblings, which in the future opens the way to a real clan instead of a nuclear “family” It is unclear, in a world without socially approved polygamy (which is a bit strange, because promiscuity does not raise questions) and without specific laws, how difficult is it to build relationships with several wives / concubines who will work together to satisfy the husband and raise his children? And what should be done for this? And is it worth trying at all?

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  4. “how difficult is it to build relationships with several wives / concubines who will work together to satisfy the husband and raise his children? And what should be done for this? And is it worth trying at all?”

    Alas, I don’t have any experience with having two or more wives. Conventional wisdom, historically, from more than one culture, indicates that it’s a pain in the ass. Whether it’s so much of a PITA that it’s not worth it, I don’t know. On reproductive grounds it would seem to be automatically worth it. Note spinning plates/dating around is not the same thing as having two or more wives.

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  5. Probably a subclinical psychopath -not a pure one. And the flashes of niceness should be calcullated to make her think that SHE can bring that out in you – she can tame the subclinical psychopath – feeds their vanity. And yeah, this strategy is for a certain type of girl who just happens to be very common now – probably the default type of girl.

    The expressed preference was for brunette female pornstars. Wonder if this holds as a general preference.

    There are, casually looking, a lot more heavily tattooed brunettes (on the internet and in real life) than blondes. Among Caucasian women. This tattooing tends to signal promiscuous women – hot in the sense of being ready for anything. My hypothesis is that brunette Caucuasian women come off as instinctively more promiscuous – so therefore “hotter.” I don’t know if that’s innate or the result of recent experience with women, images of women.

    Remember when you showed the picture comparing the traditional woman with the ho’? The traditional woman cooking in the Alice in Wonderland dress was blonde if I remember. The ho’ was brunette. You said you’d blow the blonde’s head off like a shotgun with your wad.

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  6. Canadian Anthropologist Peter Frost argues that blondes and redheads evolved on the North European tundra / plains as a result of sexual selection. Perhaps it is not caused by low sunlight but enabled/allowed by low sunlight. Dunno – are the genes for skin and hair different. Are they correlated?

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  7. “The expressed preference was for brunette female pornstars. Wonder if this holds as a general preference.”
    I don’t know, but I really haven’t had a lot of guy friends who preferred blondes. Have you? My impression is that men from more-dark-haired areas of the world tend to like blondes more.

    I’ve never found blondes harder to bag than brunettes – though since I don’t really pant after blondes, maybe I’ve had genuine outcome-independence working in my favor there.

    “Remember when you showed the picture comparing the traditional woman with the ho’? The traditional woman cooking in the Alice in Wonderland dress was blonde if I remember. The ho’ was brunette. You said you’d blow the blonde’s head off like a shotgun with your wad.”

    LOL, yeah, I totally remember that. That traditional-looking chick looked so feminine and demure. Just thinking about it makes me horny. She was kinda blonde, but we must be, er, open-minded and pragmatic.

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  8. It’s wild that you mentioned Peter Frost, because I had an edit I wanted to make to this post, mentioning him, before WordPress went all spastic on me. So I’ll just put it here in the comments:

    UPDATE: Wow, check this out at Peter Frosts’ Evo and Proud:
    https://evoandproud.blogspot.com/2015/07/the-puzzle-of-european-hair-eye-and.html
    Frost is saying something orthogonal to but related to what I say above about dark hair. He’s a professional researcher in this area but accepts the evolutionary framework with no discernible politically correct crimestop in his thinking. His thesis in the linked post: in Europe, especially northeastern Europe, unique competition for male mates occurred among women several thousand years ago. As a result, an eye-catching proliferation of hair and eye colors developed among women. (Of course some of it would pass to their male children as well.) Notably – I had no idea – women have a wider variety of hair and eye colors than men! Wow, that’s interesting.

    He also asks, rhetorically, “If sexual selection had not been the cause, what else could have been? The need to adapt to weaker sunlight and a colder climate? Why, then, did this evolution not happen among indigenous peoples who live just as far north in Asia and North America?” As I noted above, “There is no particular relationship between latitude and prevalent hair color!”

    He also states, “European steppe-tundra was a singularity among the many environments that confronted early humans as they spread around the world,” buttressing my point above that “Europe’s weird.”

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  9. Come to think of it my friends never really stated their preference. A lot of them dated or married blond girls but I don’t know if that’s what they preferred. I dont care for very dark (black) hair especially on white girls.

    I wonder if north Europe was more overcast than north Asia or America.

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  10. “I dont care for very dark (black) hair especially on white girls.”
    Here’s a gateway drug to gorgeous dark-haired girls: A light-skinned, blue-eyed Irish girl with long dark hair. I knew a real beauty in college. (Actually I’m not sure she was of Irish extraction, but who cares!)

    “I wonder if north Europe was more overcast than north Asia or America.”
    Interesting! Certainly would explain the British Isles.

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  11. based on a porn website’s survey of 50,000 respondents from over 150 countries the ideal woman has “straight, dark, long hair.

    This is very hard to believe.
    Even in Germany and Scandinavia, young women dye their hair blonde. I believe most German girls are only blonde up to at most 20 or 25 years old at most. Hair becomes darker with age so light hair signals youth, which in women is central to their attractiveness. Almost no woman in Europe dyes their hair darker.
    I know Japanese women used to dye their hair blonde more than they do now, I asked and they told me it’s because they realized it doesn’t look good *on them*. If you go to the store, you’ll see all shades of brown. It must be hard to pull off blonde when your natural color is black.

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  12. “Hair becomes darker with age so light hair signals youth”

    Commenter “james blonde” made a similar point above. But blonde hair also looks like greying/white hair. Coal-black hair unambiguously signals youth. I figure that’s why I have such a, uh visceral reaction to Lais Ribeiro (pictured at the head of my most recent post). Maybe de gustibus non est disputandum. There was one source – perhaps Peter Frost, the evo psych guy I mentioned above – who said that Maxim sells more issues when the girl on the cover has a hair color that’s far from the mean in either direction, darker or lighter.

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  13. I heard in publicity they like contrast, so they’ll have models the are very different from each other, or look unusual.
    But for choosing mates, I thought men generally prefer lighter hair and skin, and women prefer darker (tall, dark and handsome). I also heard prostitution rates are higher for women who can plausibly dye their hair blonde.
    I think I first read the “youthful appearance” argument from Satoshi Kanazawa, whose psychology-today blog looks censored now. He talks about it in his book (“why beautiful people have more daughters” or something like that), but I couldn’t find the relevant part online. If you track down the book
    https://es1lib.org/book/2700300/5e35ee (that’s a non-sketchy link amazingly)
    I’m sure he must have some numbers on preference for blondes/brunettes.

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  14. “Beuatiful People…” That’s an interesting-looking book that’s been on my long-term “to read” list forever.

    Who are all these men who like blondes, a.k.a. wraiths (LOL)? I wish I could somehow trade all the blondes in the world for dark-haired chicks. I’d make an exception for Jolene Blalock when she was young.
    I knew a brunette a long time ago who had done a semester abroad in a part of the world with tons of blondes. She said she got a lot of male attention because in that locale she was the exotic one. So maybe it’s whatever is unusual. (Matches what Frost says about Europe.) OTOH, it’s not like I live in an environment with trillions of blondes. Hmm.

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  15. Who are all these men who like blondes, a.k.a. wraiths (LOL)? I wish I could somehow trade all the blondes in the world for dark-haired chicks.

    Wraiths, Lol!

    She said she got a lot of male attention because in that locale she was the exotic one. So maybe it’s whatever is unusual.

    There must be some of that. Actual readhead women are universally liked (unlike men), possibly because of how rare and distinct they are.
    I agree with Roosh that the attractiveness scale for women is 1) nordic, 2) atlantid/med, and for men 1) atlantid/med, 2) nordic. That means attractiveness of women as measured by most men, and of men as measured by most women (some exceptions of course, japanese women love love love blonde men).
    This is more or less what you see when you count the number of blondes in lists of top female models (lots):
    https://www.topteny.com/top-10-most-famous-female-models-in-the-world/
    and the number of blondes in lists of top male models (gay!):
    https://www.vogue.co.uk/article/famous-male-models

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  16. Also, it’s amazing how NOT attractive those female models are. Some are downright unattractive, and the rest, except for one or two, are meh.

    That’s true. It’s hard to judge these things using modern models. Maybe more reliable are movie actresses of old times.

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